This makes her feel as if the only thing keeping them apart is the ring on his finger.Unfortunately, even if she is not ready to admit it, her subconscious desire is for him to make the dream come true, and leave his wife.Eventually those sneaky late night phone calls end abruptly with “I gotta go!” and a click, leaving the other woman wondering all night if his cover was blown or not, and whether or not she will hear from him after that.
The last time I shaved my legs there were leaves on the trees. I wasn’t about to rock up at his flat in the middle of the night. Just because he says he loves her does not mean that he will do what it takes to prove it to her.The other woman can’t call him or see him when she wants to.In a loveless marriage with small children, the kids become more of a silver lining and the focus of all the reasons to deal with the unhappiness of no sex and conversation that only revolves around household duties (“did you pay the light bill?”, “Johnny has band practice tomorrow, can you pick him up? Often the fear of what others will think will not let him do it, as the man does not want to become the “bad guy” in their eyes as the daddy who left in their early years.