Signs you are dating the wrong guy
Finding someone you actually like, figuring out you sorta love them, and then getting comfortable enough to just be your human self around them takes so long and it only gets harder with age (I'm so sorry! But that's no reason to give up just because you're pretty comfortable and "meh" about the person you're currently with. You feel noticeably less interested in sex than you did a month or two ago, and you don't feel like it's getting any better at all.People like to write off sex as a less-important component of a relationship, but it's incredibly important and can serve as a good litmus test for other problems you might be having.Yeah, breakups are scary and terrible and are maybe the worst things that can happen to people sometimes, but if this is someone you theoretically love, you shouldn't be waiting for the moment they finally realize you're just not into it and break things off. When you see that they texted you three times in a row about the really cute dog they just saw on the sidewalk, you don't get excited about replying or talking to them.If your text conversations are purely for making plans to hang out or bone, and you don't feel excited to talk to them about random things you see throughout your day, this relationship is on the fast path to becoming burdensome.9.They love you and would hate for you to end up with someone who is less than what you want or deserve.Pay attention when your friends say things like this — they're just trying to help.
People in happy relationships don't pine after when you think about maybe accidentally just once cheating on your partner.But you should make each other happy enough that the idea of sleeping with someone else isn't your turn-on.6.It feels like there's a constant imbalance of feelings, and it definitely feels like he's the one who likes you way more.You should be sexually attracted to your partner, and when sex starts feeling like a burden, that's a pretty good indicator that something is wrong.12.The most exciting thing that's happened to you in the past few weeks is when you talked for an hour to a really cute guy at that house party.